这个世界，总有你不喜欢的人，也总有人不喜欢你。这都很正常。而且，无论你有多好，也无论对方有多好，都苛求彼此不得。因为，好不好是一回事，喜欢不喜欢是另一回事。
This world, there is always a person, you don't like someone don't like you, too. This is very normal. And, no matter how good you are, no matter how good, each other are also demanding each other may not. Because, good or not is one thing, like it or not is another matter.
刻意去讨人喜欢，折损的，只能是自我的尊严。不要用无数次的折腰，去换得一个漠然的低眉。纡尊降贵换来的，只会是对方愈发地居高临下和颐指气使。没有平视，就永无对等。
To likeable, wreck, only the dignity of self. Don't use the countless count, brow a lower indifference to change. Condescending for witness, can only be each other increasingly commanding and bossed around [1]. Without heads up, there is no equivalent.
也不要在喜欢不喜欢上，分出好人和坏人来。带着情绪倾向的眼光，难免会陷入褊狭。咬人的，你不能说它是坏狗。狗总是要咬人的，这是狗的天性和使命。也就是说，在盯着别人的同时，还要看到自我的缺陷和不足。
Also don't like it or not, to separate the good and the bad. With the eye of emotional tendency, hard to avoid can precisely. Bite, you can't say it is a bad dog. Dogs are always want to bite, it is a dog's nature and mission. That is to say, staring at others at the same time, also saw the flaw and the insufficiency of self.
当然了，极致的喜欢，更像是一个自己与另一个自己在光阴里的隔世重逢。愿为对方毫无道理地盛开，会为对方无可救药地投入，这都是极致的喜欢。这时候，若只说是脾气、情趣和品性相投或相通，那不过是浅喜;最深的喜欢，就是爱，就是生命内里的粘附和吸引，就是灵魂深处的执着相守与深情对望。
Of course, like to the extreme, more like a himself with another met reunited in time. Is willing to each other in full bloom, without reason will be hopelessly inputs for each other, this is perfection. At that time, if only congenial temper, appeal and character or similar, it is just shallow xi; The deepest love, is love, is life inside the adhesion and attraction, is the soul of the persistent together with deep feeling of hope.
这是一场诡秘而又盛大的私人化进程。私人化的意思就是，即使无比错误，也无限正确。有时候，你的无数个回眸，未必能看到一个擦肩而过。有时候，你拿出天使的心，并不一定换来天使的礼遇。如果对方不喜欢，都懒得为你装一次天使。谁也不需要逢场作戏。尽管，一时的虚情假意，也能抚慰人陶醉人，但终会留下搪塞的痛，敷衍的伤。
This is a mysterious and grand personal process. Personal means, even if very wrong, is correct. Sometimes, looking back at your countless may not see a brush. Sometimes, you out of the angel heart, is not necessarily for the treatment of an angel. If you don't like it, don't pack a angel for you. Who also do not need to take part in accidental amusement. Although, at that time, the amount of fakeness required can soothe people intoxicated people, but will leave fobbed off pain, a perfunctory.
所以，这个世界最冒傻气的事，就是跑到不喜欢的人那里去问为什么。不喜欢就是不喜欢了，没有为什么。就像一阵风刮过，你要做的是，拍拍身上的灰尘，一转身沉静走开。然后，把这个不喜欢自己的人寂然忘掉。
So, the world the most foolish thing, or going to who don't like to ask why. Don't like just don't like, no why. Like a gust of wind blowing, you want to do is patted the dust, a quiet walk away. Then, forget this don't like themselves have become.
一个人，风尘仆仆地活在这个世界上，要为喜欢自己的人而活着。这才是最好的态度。不要在不喜欢你的人那里丢掉了快乐，然后又在喜欢自己的人这里忘记了快乐。
A person, dusty to live in this world, to live for people like yourself. This is the best attitude. Don't don't like your people there lost happiness, then in a man like yourself here forget happy.
勉强不来的事情，不去追逐。你为此而累的时候，或许对方也最累。你停下来了，你放下了，终会发现，天不会塌，世界始终为所有人祥云缭绕。
Barely not to things, not to chase. You tired, for it may each other is also the most tired. You stop, you put down, will be found that the day will not collapse, the world is always xiangyun incense to be all things to all people.
谁都在世俗的泥淖里扑腾着。 有的人天生是来爱你的，有的人注定要来给你上课的。你苦心经营的，是对方不以为意的;你刻骨憎恨的，却是对方习以为常的。喜欢与不喜欢之间，不是死磕，便是死拧。然而，这就是生活，有贴心的温暖，也有刺骨的寒冷，不过是想让你的人生，变得更加丰富，更加完整。
Who are fluttering in the worldly mire. Some people are born to love you, some people are destined to come to you in class. Your elaboration, is able to shrug off each other; Deep and hate you, is each other for granted. Between love and don't like, not into, is death to twist. However, this is life, have a sweet warm, also have the biting cold, but want to make you life, become more abundant, more complete.
在辽阔的生命里，总会有一朵或几朵祥云为你缭绕。与其在你不喜欢或不喜欢你的人那里苦苦挣扎，不如在这几朵祥云下面快乐散步。天底下赏心快事不要那么多，只一朵，就足够足够。
In the vast, the life, there will always be a single or a few a cloud incense for you. In you don't like or don't like you there are struggling, as in this a few happy under a cloud for a walk. There were good pleasure don't so much, only a flower, enough is enough.
