Communication skills
Abstract:1A body of scholarship all about communication is presented and explained in textbooks, electronic publications, and academic journals. In the journals, researchers report the results of studies that are the basis for an everexpanding understanding of how we all communicate. Communication happens at many levels (even for one single action), in many different ways, and for most beings, as well as certain machines. Several, if not all, fields of study dedicate a portion of attention to communication, so when speaking about communication it is very important to be sure about what aspects of communication one is speaking about.
2.try to think others first .when eating,give others more food to eat.it will express your enthusiasm ,a person be full of enthusiasm always be welcomed.
Key-words:communication;friendship;interview;body communication;
1. good communication is very necessary
With the development of sciences and technology, the world is no longer what it used to be. Everyone should master one or more skills in order to survive and succeed in the world. As far as I am concerned, the most important skill is communication skill. There are several reasons to support my points.
What is communication,why we do communication, how to get a great communication? Those are very valule questions for us all to be adaput to the nowday’s sociality.
Communication as an academic discipline relates to all the ways we communicate, so it embraces a large body of study and knowledge. The communication discipline includes both verbal and nonverbal messages. A body of scholarship all about communication is presented and explained in textbooks, electronic publications, and academic journals. In the journals, researchers report the results of studies that are the basis for an everexpanding understanding of how we all communicate. Communication happens at many levels (even for one single action), in many different ways, and for most beings, as well as certain machines. Several, if not all, fields of study dedicate a portion of attention to communication, so when speaking about communication it is very important to be sure about what aspects of communication one is speaking about. Definitions of communication range widely, some recognizing that animals can communicate with each other as well as human beings, and some are more narrow, only including human beings within the parameters of human symbolic interaction.
2.How to do.
First, other people could understand you better if you have a good communication skill. There is an adage which says the only weapon that becomes sharper with constant use is the tongue. People can find opportunities with communicating with others. For example, I have a classmate who studies very hard and gets good score in the exam. He is introverted and you can rarely see him communicate with others. When he applied a school in America, the school invited him to have a face to face interview in Hong Kong. The interview officer has quickly detected that he is not good at communicate, because he can’t explain what he want to says clearly. So he didn’t get the offer from that school. It is important to let others understand you and it depend on your communication skill. If you do not have the ability to communicate with others, it is difficult to survive in the world.
As you know, there are many people who have lots of good ideas but have no ideal to express it.Thanks to it , many talented person were buried.As a word going “talented person maby is good at communication,but the person who is good at communication must be talented.”when I steped college first day,my brother told me that communication is a subject I must marst well.he gave me a example that in their college,there were many smart students ,they discover rare great theros,because they didn’t know how to express it and how to make it knew,they just published papers in same famous web or newspaper.in the end someone that has big economical brain changed it a little and owned it.Just like this he geted rich success,on the contrary the one discovering is nothing.can you say there was someone steal the idea?It is because the discover don’t communicate .And now you can feel it is of importance.
Communication is a special scholarship,now let's close it.it zxist everywhere in our life.
When you as a interviewee ,how to introduce yourself is a key to success. there are large people starting their sentence with 'I or my',as 'my name is jone,my special field of study is music, i am good at classic music '.it will give the interviewer information about you are a person who is self-centered so that you are largely failed in your interview.maybe we should deal with the problem from our inner.you shuold start with this way,as 'my name is jone, what are you going to learn about me, please give your guid.' when you start like this ,the interviewer will consider that you look up on their ideas,and you would get good information.
Not only interview but also friendship,it is same way.a book named Side And Round talk lots of skills about how to be good ,how to make communication.in a word 'The time side you should side ,the time round you should round' .think it carefull,it is bible in communication.only this ,your circle of friends will be wider and wider.For example your classmates and you go to dinner, when turn to order dishes, you like a dish most ,but you get news there only you like it ,then you should order another most people enjoy instead of it. On the contrary,if a student order a dish most don't like,you should suport he,even that you don't like as well'.try to think others first .when eating,give others more food to eat.it will express your enthusiasm ,a person be full of enthusiasm always be welcomed.
Body languege is way of communication.Some one ever said'smile is The most powerful weapon in Conquering others.And only hold it ,you will have the courage to face all frustration,not to mention get a good communication.Sometimes a smile is all.
In addition, friends are very important to one, no one will live without friends. It has been said that the entire splendor 1 in the world is not worth a good friend. To have a good communication skill will help you to create friendly environment and make more friends. I think humor is an important characteristic in communication skill. For example, my classmates are all friendly to me because they think that I am a humorous man. I always tell some jokes and use humorous tone to them. It is quite easy to make friend with humorous person.
3.Donging it well is good for us all.
So from what has been discussed, one can reach only this conclusion that communication skill is a very important skill a person should learn in order to be successful in the world today.
In the end,with a grateful heart tolerance is best way to close others,and you will get a great communication and you will benefit from it all your life.
