Love in university campus, we have It is quite common for.
首先,我要说一下大学生恋爱的现状。
First of all, I want to say about the situation of College Students' love.
1、恋爱年龄小,从大一就开始盛行了;
1, love is the age of small, popular from the start;
2、恋爱公开化,和高中时期不同,现在的我们都喜欢将自己的男(女)朋友公之于众,国家都允许大学生结婚,学校怎么还会管这么多;
2, love the open, and in high school, now we all love your male (female) friends toreveal to the public, countries allow college students to get married, how can so many school tube;
3、恋爱成活率低,悲剧增多。由于大学缺乏经济基础和未来的一定性,恋爱走入婚姻的机率较低。有部分大学生不会处理学业和恋爱的关系,爱情至上,厌学、旷课现象增多,严重的甚至不能顺利毕业,耽误了自己的美好前程。也有的大学生社会阅历浅,心理承受能力弱,而期望值又高,易冲动,一旦失恋或受到打击,往往造成爱情悲剧。伤害对方的有之;自杀的有之;精神分裂的有之;厌恶俗世、破罐破摔的亦有之。因此,我们需要理性的认识大学恋爱。
3, the low survival rate of increase of love, tragedy. Due to the lack of economic foundation and a qualitative University future, love marriage low probability. Some students can not deal with academic and love relationship, love first, increasedweariness, truancy phenomenon, serious can't even graduate, delayed his bright future. Also some social experience shallow, the psychology bearing capacity is weak, and expectations are high, easy impulse, once the romance or hit, often caused the tragedy of love. Hurt each other with the Dutch act; have;schizophrenia is earthly, Poguanposhuai; aversion to also have. Therefore, we need a rational understanding of love in the university.
我要说一下大学生恋爱的利弊。就个体而言,恋爱对青年的心里成熟有着促进的作用,有些心理学家认为,恋爱是青春晚期和成年早期最重要的事件,只有经过了恋爱,人才会真正成熟起来。不过,恋爱的意义虽有积极的一面,有时也会危害青年的心理健康。恋爱中的起起伏伏造成了心理上的大起大落,承受的压力可想而知,在座的各位有些人一定也森有体会。
I have to say about the advantages and disadvantages of College Students' love.Individually, love has a promoting effect on young heart mature, some psychologists say, love is a late adolescence and early adulthood, the most important event, only through love, people will truly mature. However, the meaning of love is a positive side, sometimes harm youth mental health. The love of the ups and downs caused change radically the psychological pressure to bear, one can imagine, all of you present here some people must also have experience of Sen.
大学生恋爱是一把双刃剑,既有优点,又有缺点。我们应该让它的有利影响变大,不利影响减到最小。
College Students' love is a double-edged sword, has both advantages, and disadvantages. We should let its beneficial effects become larger, adverse effectsto a minimum.